do I want what I cannot have or does what I want happen to be something I cannot have?

That is the question. The scene is that there are four girls. Three of them want me unequivocally. One of them continues to see me but diffuses sexual tension. Guess which one I'm interested in. This might actually be the nearest to heartbreak I've ever got and I hate it.

Girl 1: I could say anything and she'd love it.

Girl 2: lives within a narrow world view which has a lot in common with mine. I could say anything within that large intersection and she'd love it.

Girl 3: she does most of the talking and is not overly taken by things I say but is still easily impressed with my lifestyle and good nature.

Girl 4: Has no obvious interest in finding out more about me.